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Apr 13, 20217 min read

Is He Breadcrumbing You?

Ever been Breadcrumbed by someone? Breadcrumbing is when someone is giving you the minimum amount of attention and investment necessary...

Shane Kohler

Apr 6, 20216 min read

3 Early Signs You Shouldn't Date Him

When you're into someone it's a really amazing feeling. The excitement, hope, and anticipation are intoxicating. It's so easy to get...

When Is the Right Time to Sleep with Him?

Shane Kohler

Mar 23, 20218 min read

When Is the Right Time to Sleep with Him?

Many of us struggle to get a sane answer to this question. Opinions on this range from the extremes of "as soon as possible", which is...

Is the Search for Love Costing You Too Much?

Shane Kohler

Mar 16, 20216 min read

Is the Search for Love Costing You Too Much?

Dating could be the most inspiring, uplifting, and creative journey of your life. It could literally be a period of expansive personal...

Is Asking for Commitment Asking Too Much?

Shane Kohler

Mar 9, 20217 min read

Is Asking for Commitment Asking Too Much?

To want commitment is only human. Asking for commitment is asking to have someone make you important, to make you a priority, to care...

The Natural Timeline of a Conscious Relationship

Shane Kohler

Mar 2, 20217 min read

The Natural Timeline of a Conscious Relationship

We've made our life's work studying relationships... All different kinds of relationships with all different kinds of people in all...

Why Do I Consistently Attract the Wrong People?

Shane Kohler

Feb 23, 20217 min read

Why Do I Consistently Attract the Wrong People?

You, like the rest of us, want Love. You want to be respected, appreciated, and honored, and you want a partner who can do that...

Shane Kohler

Feb 16, 20217 min read

3 Things That Make a Man Fall in Love

If you've ever been into someone who didn't feel the same in return then you know what it feels like to ask this question: "What do I...

Boundaries: Why You Need Them and How to Create Them

Shane Kohler

Feb 11, 20216 min read

Boundaries: Why You Need Them and How to Create Them

Boundaries are important. We're aware that creating a boundary isn't the sexiest conversation and it's definitely not the most fun thing...

Why Love Feels Impossible in Modern Dating

Shane Kohler

Feb 2, 20217 min read

Why Love Feels Impossible in Modern Dating

Love is a fundamental human need. It's not just something we want, it's essential to a fulfilled and happy life. Loneliness is at the...

Should I Date a Man Who's Just Getting Out of a Relationship?

Shane Kohler

Jan 27, 20215 min read

Should I Date a Man Who's Just Getting Out of a Relationship?

What do you do when you've met a man that you really like, you really want to explore things with him, and he's just coming out of a...

"What Are We Doing Here?..." How to Have "The Talk"

Shane Kohler

Jan 19, 20217 min read

"What Are We Doing Here?..." How to Have "The Talk"

For most people, dating is just about playing the field, seeing what shows up, and taking it as it comes. Most people don't have much...

Why You Never Have to Prove Yourself To Anyone

Shane Kohler

Jan 12, 20216 min read

Why You Never Have to Prove Yourself To Anyone

When you meet someone you like, of course you want them to like you back. Especially after you've hit it off once or a few times, you...

"It's Complicated" Really Means: "I Have Commitment Issues"

Shane Kohler

Jan 5, 20216 min read

"It's Complicated" Really Means: "I Have Commitment Issues"

Ever been in a relationship that wasn't really a relationship? It's a painful place to be, especially when you're the one who wants it to...

Why Am I Attracted to People Who Hurt Me?

Shane Kohler

Jan 4, 20216 min read

Why Am I Attracted to People Who Hurt Me?

Love and relationships don't always make sense. When it comes to Love, we often have a way of walking away from the relationship we truly...

Shane Kohler

Dec 23, 20206 min read

Is He Really Into You?

There is almost nothing more exciting than the beginning of a new relationship. You really like someone and you're starting to allow...

How to Create a Powerful Relationship with Online Dating

Shane Kohler

Dec 9, 20207 min read

How to Create a Powerful Relationship with Online Dating

The number one statement we hear about online dating is how much people hate it. We know how frustrating it is to be looking for Love in...

3 Reasons Why You Would End up in a Dead-End Relationship

Shane Kohler

Dec 2, 20207 min read

3 Reasons Why You Would End up in a Dead-End Relationship

There is nothing more frustrating than investing your time, heart, and energy in a relationship that's going nowhere. This more than...

What It Means to Be an Empowered Woman in Dating

Shane Kohler

Nov 24, 20206 min read

What It Means to Be an Empowered Woman in Dating

There's no doubt that the journey of finding and creating True Love is one of the most empowering you will ever take. There is almost no...